How extremely unbearable is childbirth?

It is different for everyone. I dont know what that other women is talking about "its not that bad" though. For me it was HORRIBLE. so bad that infact I asked if they could just give me a c-section. But I was too far along in labor to do it. Also I had 2 epidurals and still felt EVERYTHING. And had an episiotamy 4 degrees. And you forget about the pain when the baby is hear. But during is awful. It feels like all the tissues in your anus and vagina and utures is being torn apart slowly. it also feels like your bones are being forced apart. And then like you are pooping a huge thing out of your vagina. I am not trying to scare you at all. Just being honest and sharing with you my eperience. of course like I said everyone is different.